| Reply from Christen, Age 14 - 4/15/02 - IP#: 209.205.148.xxx bigbb-c3720 hi i am in eight grade and for the last three years i have been gaining weight like crazy. i don't eat that much so i don't know what is wrong. i can relate to how peopel make fun of you. i am also the fat girl but even though people make fun of you it isn't because they don't like you it is because they have things wrong with them too, so if the attention is pulled off them people won't make fun of them. it is not our fault people are cruel most kids are brought up that way. you just have to be the bigger person and walk away. eventually when you and i have grown up and have a really good life, we are going to go to our ten year high school reunion and see all those people who never made anything successful in their lives and we just have to look past the bad things and be nice to them because no matter what, being nice to other people just shows that you don't care about what they think of you. that is just how i feel about being big. i know it sounds corny but the first thing about being big is you have to realize that you have a problem, and sometimes, not always you could be one of the people that actually thin out later on down the road. i don't really think i will but hey you never know. if you ever wanna chat my name is christen and i will be on here every sunday and monday. good luck and i hope that you start feeling better about yourself. |