I somewhat have the same problem as you. At my school barely any guys like me because of my weight but i am pretty. I do have people who like me but they don't go to my school and do drugs or are too old for me. (my age limit is 21) but you know what i say so what?! so what if they don't like me for my weight. that just goes to show how shallow they are. don't lose weight for them lose it for you. i'm losing weight for me and for health. (my back hurts often) please do it for you and not for some shallow female who'll only go out with you for your weight and looks. they should go out with you for your personality. as much as it may hurts some females prefer smaller guys because that's there perference and that's okay. to tell you the truth i like chunkier guys not because i'm big but because i like someone with a little meat on their bones. like some say bones are for dogs and meat is for the man. (just kidding)