dude! chill! it's not the end of the world. u don't have to have a gf! and u act like every one is agaist u! maybe it's just your mind thinking every one says that because a few people do. try not to think so negitive! just have alot of fruits and veggies instead of junk food, excersize every chance u get and chew gum for cravings. eat stuff that fills u up but is healthy for u. like banana's are filling and so is water. meat has fat so maybe be a vegatarian, u save animals too.