sometimes what u think is teasing, is just playin. maybe talk to your step dad about it. and if your real dad hasn't talk to u for 3 months doesn't mean he doesn't care. he must be really busy. like my dad, he lives in texas and can't always talk to me every day.sometimes not even for 3 months. but i don't let it get to me thinking he hates me, he has a big job(you know the colafornia brown outs? well he has somthing to do with that) so he is probally busy. somtimes i call him. maybe u should do that too instead of just wait for him to call u. try not to take it personally.