im sorry you feel that way, but weight loss is weight loss no matter how old you are. the people who are looking for buddies arent looking for a friend to chat about the next simpsons episode or something, they want to talk about health and fitness. from what henry wrote u know heaps on this subject. age doesnt matter when youre helping someone. but if you dont want to come here n e more, good luck finding a place where people are so willing to help others, like in here