hey, Why do you think you need a guy in your life? i'm 14 and have never had a boyfriend or i've never even been kissed. I want a guy too, and i'm a little overweight, like you, Your not that much over maybe 15 pounds or so. Don't listen to those dumb guys, there the ones who are missing out on someone that is probly great. I mean you don't need something serious now your 14, but i do realize how you feel. Don't turn to anorixia or bulima for answers, your just having a bad day, i'm sure you great and think your great. If you really feel like the guys don't like you because your fat tri to get in shape, teabo works great. E-mail me Lizzy_87@hotmail.com Hope you mail me Amanda