Hey, i know how you feel, I am always comparing myself to other people and it really hurts my self confidence, last year on my school trip eveyone had those skimpy strink bikinis that i am afraid to wear in public. However i have realized that wishing that i looked good enough to wear one doesn't change anything. It only makes it worse. If you start exersizing (i would start with a light jog or speed walk every afternoon, something thats carteovascular)and eating healthier, you can make goals for yourself and work on only making comparions of your own self improvements. If you need someone to talk to email me - NattimArak@aol.com