sorry- i think i might have mis-interpreted your message. but it is a bit mean. everyone here should be here for support- not to call epople pathetic for not being able to stnd up for themselves becasue they lack self esteem. that doesn't help anyone. and you shouldn't call people pathetic and then plead for help because your bf's going to break up with you in the same post. it just sound a bit... i don't know...