you know- it really annoys me when people like you say that you're more important and have bigger problems then everyone else. we're here for SUPPORT- not to judge the placement of your weight problems over others. we all have different reasons for losing weight so if you want support fine- just don't think that your problems are the worst in the world becasue i can see that you have self-confidence and many of the people here have to work up to that. it's all in how the person takes it...