honestly I have the same problem you do, my mom always tells me that I need to lose weight, and I believe it, but I never do because we go on deits togehter and then after a week go off of them and then she gets mad at me.. I would love to talk to you about all of this so if you want IM me at hurleychic319 or kryp2nite3ddchic! Thanks..and good luck!