hey gurl dont be discouraged by what ppl think of you...their just little annoying ppl on the earth..and ur better then that......and when you wanna lose the weight do it for yourself..and that you wanna feel and healthy and be happy its as simple as that....try exercising everyday if you can do that or 3times a week...eat less then you wuld normally eat..avoid too many sugars or fatty foods....drink alot of water and be happy while losing weight and always imagine how good ull look that will get you keep motivated..if u have ne other questions or need help im willing to help heres my address.....phool_8383@hotmail.com