I don't think doing this for a guy will work because in the end you could be really hurt, but at the same time happy because you are thinner and healthier. But hin kabout it, if it doesn't work out with you and the guy, then you could get depressed and gain the weight all back. The biggest reason you should lose weight is for you. The second should be something just as important. I hope everything goes ok for you. If you wanna talk my email is bfz_0306@yahoo.com Thanks and good luck!!