Hey we have the same problem. Maybe we could be buddies and help each other. Like write once a week and see how we are doing. My hieght is 5'5" and I am 145 lbs. My goal weight is 120. It will probably take a month or so. My ballet teacher says I can start partnering as soon as I lose it. I am already on pointe, but losing weight would make jumps and turns alot easier. Especially when you do those arabesques, it helps with back flexibility. So if you think it is a good idea, email me back. blondegrl0986@aol.com