i know how you feel...im 14 as well...i weigh 212 pounds.*sigh* I am am a size XXXL...unfortunantly, it is sooo hard for me to fit in clothes, i have turned to spandex. My parents often need to help me get dressed, because i am really short. 4'11". Its so humiliating. One morning my mom wouldnt help me, so she told me i had to stay nude until i lost some weight and could dress myself. I eventually got the pants on though..without losing n e weight. *sigh* Write me, i really would like to talk to you!!! PBLR333 signed:blubber girl, or as many call me...Bertha, wide load, fatty, hog...ext. *sigh*