`Hey, you arent as fat as me, I am 5'2 and i weigh 203 lbs. The only way you can begin to loose weight is to believe in yourself and to have will power. I dont know if you're on any kind of diet or anything but i stopped drinking carbinated drinks and I am not eating anything after 6:00 and so far it is working. It is SLOWLY working, but it is helping alot. (you can still drink diet drinks and you can sub junk for fruit) good luck!!!!!!!!!!!